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Save My Catholic Marriage By Catholic Alpha Radical
Save My Catholic Marriage By Catholic Alpha Radical
Jerry Jacobs Jr.

Save My Catholic Marriage By Catholic Alpha Radical is the podcast for husbands who refuse to surrender their marriage, their family, or their faith to The Evil One. Most men think they got blindsided. They didn’t. Before divorce papers… before “I need space”… before annulment talk… a wife usually goes through a quiet internal withdrawal: trust erosion, hope collapse, emotional shutdown—and spiritual warfare inside the walls. I’m Jerry Jacobs Jr., author of: From “I Do” to “I’m Done” — The Wife’s Exit Strategy A Christian Husband’s Catholic Guide to Halting Her Hidden Plan to Leave, Divorce, or Annul You …and founder of CatholicAlpha.com. This show trains you to read the patterns most men miss—and respond with calm authority instead of panic. If you’re living in daily conflict—or daily silence—this is for you. If you want strategic counter-moves instead of emotional hype: Don’t chase. Diagnose. Start with the book: The Wife’s Exit Strategy ➡️ www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

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Sexless Marriage Causes

Reasons My Catholic Wife And I Don’t Make Love Anymore (Part 3)

In this 125th episode? Catholic Alpha's Rant: What is a sexless marriage and what are the causes? Part 3

 

What many don’t understand is that most times a sexless marriage is just the result of many other problems that are going on now...

 

Or that have taken place in the past. Which are now manifesting in a loss of intimacy.

 

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  • In this 125th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
  • What is the definition of a sexless marriage and what are the causes? Part 3
  • Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions
  • Here is the link: Sexless Marriage: The Agony
  • The Top 24 Reasons For Intimacy Anguish In Your Marriage

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Has Your Marriage Gone Cold… The Passion,
The Connection, The Desire?

Lost Her Respect… And Nothing You Do
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  • When intimacy disappears… the clock is already ticking
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If she’s pulled away…
if divorce has been mentioned…
or if the connection is already gone…

You are not at the beginning.

You are already inside a pattern most men never see—until it’s too late.

And guessing your way through this will cost you your marriage.

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"Show Transcript"

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 125th EPISODE (What is a sexless marriage and what are the causes? Part 3)

Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions…

Get your Catholic Marriage questions answered now by calling (313) Radical that’s (313) 723-4225 or call in using your browser at CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

Don’t wait! Get in the queue now call (313) Radical for some resolution to your marriage confusion – BAM!

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[QUOTE]

“To be an infallible lover, the first thing you must recognize that sex is, and must always be holy. It must make you holy. It must make your beloved holy. It must lead you to Him who is holy.”[END QUOTE]

Gregory J. Popcak, Ph.D. ~ Book: Holy Sex - A Catholic Guide to Toe- Curling, Mind-Blowing, Infallible Loving

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Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Question Of The Day Or Background Of Man On Fire

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Starting next week the podcast is moving to three days a week...

Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday

And the time will move to 6pm eastern.

The replay will still be available each day.

So, as promised in today’s Radical Rant...What is a sexless marriage and what are the causes?

What many don’t understand is that most times a sexless marriage is just the result of many other problems that are going on now...

or that have taken place in the past. Which are now manifesting in a loss of intimacy.

I defeated this problem in my marriage (with the help of the Holy Spirit)

So, I wanted to help other men find the solution in their marriage.

Because eventually this can cost you your marriage.

Why?

Because marriage is more than two people together.

It’s about God, being best friends, closeness, and one flesh.

Intimacy is the second most important thing in marriage besides prayer...

And intimacy is what is responsible for the emotional closeness in a marriage.

And without it the marriage will be lackluster marriage, or worse, end in divorce or annulment.

So, what is a sexless marriage?

A sexless marriage is defined as making love on average less than once per month.

A low sex marriage is defined as making love an average of less than once per week.

So, What’s the solution to a sexless marriage?

Well there are a few...

But the first step is knowing the possible causes of a sexless marriage and moving to eliminate those in your marriage.

In my article “Sexless Marriage: The Agony: the top 24 reasons for intimacy anguish in your marriage...”

In this article I list the top 24 possible causes of a Sexless marriage and divide them into three categories.

They are, emotional, physical, and spiritual

This is part two of a three-part series.

Today we will cover the third category the “spiritual”...

For the causes of a sexless marriage

Which deals with the spiritual causes of a sexless marriage.

After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept!

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.

Is your marriage in crisis, boring or passionless?

Call (313) 723-4225 or call from your browser...

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Call To Action #1

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

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Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Radical Rant Content Or Man On Fire Ministry Interview

As promised the top causes of a sexless marriage...

Again, we will cover the third category that contributes to the causes of a sexless marriage. (The Spiritual)

The effects of a sexless marriage are devastating.

But for a wife it is even more so...

For example...

Many wives are bored or resistant to the marital embrace because of a lack of longevity

Inhibitions (Trauma)

Pain of past failed sexual relationships

Severe deep and emotional pain and built up anxiety and anger

No one tells us how to deal with this pain in our marriage!

And so, unhappiness, unfulfillment, breed a lack of emotional closeness and the marriage begins to severely degrade!

People always discount God don’t they?

People really believe that there are no consequences (whether it be mental, physical, or spiritual) to our attachment to sin.

In reality sin makes us stupid.

The more we engage in it

the more we become numb to it.

And so after a while God just leaves us to ourselves...

And allows the pain in our lives to increase until we succumb to His Will for us.

And what is His Will for us?

That is for us to be with Him in heaven.

And so when we reject Him or ignore Him, or our souls begin to move to far away from Him...

He shows us His true mercy and allows the demonic in our lives to inflict pain on us.

Whether it be of a physical, mental, or spiritual nature.

Which shows us that we actually do need Him and Our Lord!

So, let’s hit category 3 for the causes of a sexless marriage...

Category Three: The Spiritual

18. Contraception:

Stops trust, stops vulnerability, stops the giving of total self, stops (emotional, physical and psychological) bonding in your marriage. (DOOMED TO FAILURE!)

More important, it stops children. It’s proven, the more children the less chance of divorce and marital problems.

19. Didn’t Get Married In The Church:
If you don’t understand what grace is, you better find out quick.

In the Catholic Faith marriage is a sacrament. This means your marriage receives special graces from God. (in short, it enhances the effects of your marriage).

20. Godless Marriage:

God created marriage. It takes three, your odds of success are low without the Almighty.

21. Prayer:
Prayer will save your marriage if you persevere and endure.

Without prayer you have no protection from the effects of “The Fall” (sin, the bad, evil).

22. Sin

Bad, evil or immoral behavior crushes your marriage like a tin cup. Marriage is hard enough when you do things right.

It’s like swimming in the ocean against a huge wave. Problems come fast and hard. Too fast for you to fix them all.

23. Pornography

Pure selfishness; causes you to turn in upon yourself

Only a matter of time before your marriage is over.

Can cause erectile dysfunction (can you say sexless marriage?)

24. Forgoing Confession

This is where our marriage counseling should be.

Confession relieves an unbelievable amount of weight from your soul.

We must understand what God loves about the marital embrace. Confession is where we learn this!

Bringing It All Together...

Many will analyze what I've stated above, and dismiss it outright.

One, because they've never considered how much their selfish past...

has infected their once rapturous marriage.

But even less noticeable, once they realize most of what is said above either applies to them, or partially applies...

They will get angry, or hurt feelings, and retreat back into the twilight zone of denial.

Why?

Because the truth hurts.

In fact, anger is usually the first response to truth.

In reality, it's hard to face up to our own sins and misdeeds.

These conclusions are of course a mistake...

and moreover, naive.

In order to fix our selfish lives, and to claim peace. We must seek courage; embrace truth.

Hey, no husband starts out wanting to endure the effects of intimacy problems, or more drastic, a sexless marriage (but it happens.)

Why? Because men get complacent. We get lazy; the big head. In essence PRIDE!

We think we know everything.

But in fact, we don't know crap. And worse yet?

We refuse to look in the mirror, and admit it! Not very smart is it?

Finally, a sexless marriage will kill your marriage (guaranteed).

Sex is a gift from the Father, for the married couple.

It's the only way that they can become seamless, inseparable, unbreakable; one flesh.

BAM!

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Marriage In Crisis Question & Answer Calls

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Target specific callers...

Hey, has your wife asked for a divorce? I need to speak to you now! call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

Hey has your wife asked for a separation? I need to speak to you now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

If you and your wife have not made love in more than 30 days I need to speak to you right now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

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Say this show doesn’t work without you call now!

Your questions and comments are welcomed and appreciated, hey I don’t know everything!!!

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Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help…]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!

Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.

I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.

Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com…For superior coaching for your marriage.

Again…SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com

That’s…SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!

Lastly, I always get the question…why don’t you help women. And I always answer them…I do!

So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby

Consider Marriage Coaching and visit

SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!

TRANSITION MUSIC!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical, is about solving Catholic marriage trouble, and relationship issues on a raw level. Which is what we really and truly need today.

Why?

I'll give you at least three of the top reasons...

  • Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
  • The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
  • Making Love Mastery - Understanding intimacy and the marital embrace through the eyes of God and your wife, this is powerful. And will change the closeness between you and your wife forever. Creating a marriage filled with devotion, loyalty, and passionate love!
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About Jerry Jacobs Jr.

Jerry Jacobs Jr. is a Catholic Marriage Strategist, founder of Catholic Alpha, and author of From “I Do” to “I’m Done” — The Wife’s Exit Strategy. A Christian Husband’s Catholic Guide to Halting Her
Hidden Plan to Leave, Divorce, or Annul You

A U.S. Air Force disabled veteran and speaker, Jerry helps Catholic men recognize the hidden patterns behind marital collapse, separation, divorce, and annulment — and respond with clarity, strength, and spiritual leadership.

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