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Save My Catholic Marriage By Catholic Alpha Radical

Jerry Jacobs Jr.

Save My Catholic Marriage By Catholic Alpha Radical is the podcast for husbands who refuse to surrender their marriage, their family, or their faith to The Evil One. Most men think they got blindsided. They didn’t. Before divorce papers… before “I need space”… before annulment talk… a wife usually goes through a quiet internal withdrawal: trust erosion, hope collapse, emotional shutdown—and spiritual warfare inside the walls. I’m Jerry Jacobs Jr., author of: From “I Do” to “I’m Done” — The Wife’s Exit Strategy A Christian Husband’s Catholic Guide to Halting Her Hidden Plan to Leave, Divorce, or Annul You …and founder of CatholicAlpha.com. This show trains you to read the patterns most men miss—and respond with calm authority instead of panic. If you’re living in daily conflict—or daily silence—this is for you. If you want strategic counter-moves instead of emotional hype: Don’t chase. Diagnose. Start with the book: The Wife’s Exit Strategy ➡️ www.SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com

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My Wife Wants A Divorce

What Should I Do? Part 1

In this 196th episode? Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day: Has your wife asked you to vacate the premises? Part 1

Why do men feel the need to move out when their wife tells them too? Weakness, selfishness, and laziness!

~ Jerry Jacobs Jr ~ Catholic Alpha

In this 196th episode of the Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE Show we discuss...
What to do when your wife demands that you move out! Part 1
Plus, your LIVE calls to answer your Catholic marriage problem questions
Caller #1: I agree that wives should not be unprotected out in public
Comment #1: I moved out because my wife was cheating; What about that?
Can you afford to miss this?
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Has She Pulled Away… Talked Divorce…
or Left the Home?

Not Sure What To Do Next? Start Here.

Has Your Marriage Gone Cold… The Passion,
The Connection, The Desire?

Lost Her Respect… And Nothing You Do
Seems To Fix It?

Chaos in your home isn’t random
Your leadership may be the missing piece
When intimacy disappears… the clock is already ticking

Tips On How To Save A Failing Marriage: Consume The 20-Minute Marriage Makeover!

Just How Serious Is Your Situation?

If she’s pulled away…
if divorce has been mentioned…
or if the connection is already gone…

You are not at the beginning.

You are already inside a pattern most men never see—until it’s too late.

And guessing your way through this will cost you your marriage.

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Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day...

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"Show Transcript"

Hello and welcome to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! – The podcast that helps you… fix your Catholic Marriage…M-F (10am eastern!)

While also giving you winning tactics, for marriage problems, girlfriend problems, and intimacy problems for men!

Moreover, where my main mission is to keep you out of divorce court!

And where Marriage Unchained – The Art Of One Flesh; Divorce Combat coaching is the flavor of the day!

While also helping men, understand marriage and courting NOT DATING in the Catholic Faith!

Why? Because dating is for sex and courting is for marriage –

IN THIS 196th EPISODE (What to do if your wife wants you to move out!)

Plus, live phone calls from you answering your marriage in crisis questions...

Get your Catholic Marriage questions answered now by calling (313) Radical that’s (313) 723-4225 or call in using your browser at CallinStudio.com/RADICAL1

If you are getting value and desire to help other marriages, please share this podcast!

Don’t wait! Get in the queue now call (313) Radical for some resolution to your marriage confusion – BAM!

TRANSITION MUSIC

Quote Of The Day

So, let’s-do-this!

[QUOTE]

“When it is all over you will not regret having suffered; rather you will regret having suffered so little, and suffered that little so badly.”

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~St. Sebastian Valfre

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Radical Rant Of The Day

Question Of The Day Or Background Of Man On Fire

1. Now to Catholic Alpha’s Radical Rant Of The Day.

• Why do men feel the need to move out when their wife tells them to?

❖ Weakness (well if that is what she wants)
❖ Selfishness (I will finally have some peace and fun)
❖ Laziness (no having the will or drive to fight)
❖ Consequences: you lose money, property, children, wife, grace with God

• How do husbands get to this point in the first place?

❖ They have put other things at a higher priority than their marriage
❖ They didn’t have the natural order of service in mind (God, marriage, children, self)
❖ They stopped dating their wife and making her feel special resulting in the loss of the all important emotional connection
❖ Stopped caring and began blaming their wife for most of the problems in their marriage
2. After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept.

3. What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

4. Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.

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We’ll go into this more after the break.
After the break we will get deeper into this mysterious concept.

What do you think? Call (313) Radical to comment

Or email me at RadicalQuestions@CatholicAlpha.com for your comments on this or for your show ideas.

TRANSITION MUSIC SHORT

Call To Action #1

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help...]

Visit Save My Catholic Marriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!
Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!
Visit Save MyCatholicMarriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.
I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.
Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.
Visit Save MyCatholicMarriage.com... For superior coaching for your marriage.
Again...SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com
That’s...Save MyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!
Lastly, I always get the question... why don’t you help women. And I always answer them...I do!
So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby
Consider Marriage Coaching and visit Save MyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!
TRANSITION MUSIC!

Radical Rant Of The Day Or Man On Fire Interview

Radical Rant Content Or Man On Fire Ministry Interview

• So as promised...

•Should you stay or go when your wife asks you or demands that you leave?

One: You Lose All Negotiation Power

• You are out of the house, she now becomes the central power in the home and get’s to make all the decisions concerning the family and the home.

• She will usually change the locks

Two: You Now Have To Pay Two Rents

Next, where are you going to go, to a hotel, or some other place where you have to pay to stay?
So, this means you will be paying two housing bills, your mortgage, and rent or hotel room bill.
Question, can you really afford that?
In my experience, many men can’t.

Three: The Kids Won’t See You

You will have to do some stupid arrangement that neither you or the kid wants to do.
Why, because your wife is only thinking of herself.
And the kids getting uprooted and running all over the place really doesn’t matter to her right now, her happiness is paramount!

Four: You Will Never See Her

if you want to save your marriage and you leave, you will never see her, and convince her that you are changing and want be the husband she needs.
Out of sight, out of mind.
They will tell you they just need time...
- ❖ Or they want a little space, or they don’t have another man, and aren’t looking for one.
- ❖ What you must realize is, once your wife reaches this point, she is only thinking about herself.
- ❖ She is selfish and wanting out. And if you leave, she will begin to convince herself to move on.
- ❖ She will say that she won’t use the kids against you, but that will soon become apparent that this is a lie, when you try to stay in the home and not leave.
- ❖ She will then get mad, and say you are a stalker, or your arguing is damaging the kids.
- ❖ This is a ploy that has been in the works for months or in many cases years!
- ❖ To get your ass out of the house so she can move on and get rid of you.
- ❖ Oh of course she will deny it until the cows come home, but dude if you fall
  for this one, you will regret it.
- ❖ Any divorce lawyer worth his salt will tell you do not leave.
She may block your phone number
She may block you on social media
Again, she may change the locks

(START PART 2) Five: If She Leaves; The Kids Stay!

TELL STORY ABOUT CLIENT’S WIFE SLEEPING WITH HIM THEN GO OUT AT NIGHT HAVE SEX AND COME BACK AND GET IN THE BED WITH HIM.
I would also tell you if she decides to leave don’t let her take your kids.
If you won’t leave and she decides to leave, you tell her yes, go ahead but your kids stay here.
Why, because this is their home, their comfort.They go to school form here. This is where mommy and daddy lived and we lived with them.
Why uproot your children just because a crazy woman feels she needs space?
How can I tell you this?
Man my first wife did the same crap,
She wanted me to go and I did...tell the rest of the story.
Six: If There Is No Physical Abuse; Don’t Leave
- You two can live in the house in separate bedrooms.
- Because when you leave, and she gets a lawyer and you go in front of the judge and you have moved out, he for the most part is not going to let you back in that house.
- Why?To basically cover his own butt.
- If he lets you back in there and your wife kills you, it will be chaos in that judges office.

Seven: Spritual Welfare - Who will defend your family when you're gone

Satan and the diabolical when consume your home in your absence
You will be turning your family over to the demonic
Without your protection they are vulnerable
You never give your wife want she wants...you give her what you know will make her happy in the end.
And in this case you leaving is a huge mistake in the supernatural world as you are the protector and defender.
And have abandoned your post...is this honorable?
Eight: Your Wife Will Begin To Commandeer your Children

She will begin the process of trying to eliminate you from her life.
Why?
To stop the pain and protect her psyche.
Out of site out of mind right?
So with this comes the kids.
The constantly remind her of you and this is painful.
You must realize that in order for your wife to want you to leave or for her to actually leave herself requires a lot of courage from her.
Which means, she needs support from friends, parents, siblings, co-workers and of course your kids!
So she will begin no letting them see you or if she does it will be spotty.
She will begin speaking ill of you and talking about the problems of the marriage in their presence.
Basically try to win them to her side because at this time she is extremely selfish and has been coached that nothing else matters but her happiness.
This is of hell and the exact reason you must stay in your home and fight.
Your kids do not deserve this. And you must man up and realize this!

Nine: Bottom Line? No Advantages To Leaving

The bottom line is, if you leave your home, there are no advantages to this.
No advantages for you, your kids, your marriage, and your wife.
The saying is you never give your wife what she wants, you give her what will make her happy.
And in your case, if you are trying to save your marriage and family, and are humble, and sincerely admitting your part in an inadequate marriage...
What will make your wife happy in the end and in favor with God, is you forcing her to work on your marriage, now that you know what a bad husband you’ve been for the last 2 years, 10 years, or 30 years!
But, in order to do this, you must accept that you were not the husband you needed to be for her, to feel like a true woman.

• BRINGING IT ALL TOGETHER

5. As women are emotional in order to bond and nurture the children...

6. Your duty as a man is to insert logic into all overly emotional situations.

7. And as men if we fail to do this, we are failing as men, husbands, and fathers.

8. Women today have been given the leadership in this country...

9. because of the failure of men in virtue, holiness, duty, honor, and a need to not focus merely on their happiness, wants and desires.

10. In fact, we are selfish and this has caused the destruction of our government, the removal of God in our once great country...

11. the dismantling of marriage, miserable and defiant children...

12. and the loss of respect, which is what St. Paul demands of wives in Ephesians 5 vs 21-33.

13. Yes, women are called not to love their husband but to respect him.

14. But as we all know, respect is earned and that only comes with men focusing in the end on their relationship with Our Lord...

15. and how He ran His life and sacrificed it for the world in order to do His Father’s will.

16. What are you willing to do?

17. How much pain are you willing to endure to do God’s will in your life?

18. Will you man up and defy your beloved request of leaving your home?

19. Or will you fix yourself...

20. become a better man and husband...

21. and in the end stay and defend your home from the demonic thereby giving your wife what she truly needs to make her happy?

22. God love you...
23. BAM!
24. Transition Music

Marriage In Crisis Question & Answer Calls

Target specific callers...

o Hey, has your wife asked for a divorce? I need to speak to you now! call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

o Hey has your wife asked for a separation? I need to speak to you now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

o If you and your wife have not made love in more than 30 days I need to speak to you right now! Call (313) RADICAL that’s 313-423-4225

25. Solicit calls on air.
26. Say this show doesn’t work without you call now!
27. Your questions and comments are welcomed and appreciated, hey I don’t know everything!!!
28. Listen to Catholic Alpha Radical LIVE! Every Monday thru Friday at 10am eastern for answers your marriage in crisis questions!

29. TRANSITION MUSIC SHORtT

Call To Action #2

[If You’re Getting Value From This Podcast And Would Like more personal Marriage Help...]

Visit SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an opportunity to work with me personally for free!
Yes, within 30 days learn how to become a better husband that attracts your wife back to you!
Visit Save My Catholic Marriage.com and get a plan tailored specific to your marriage and situation.
I’ve helped hundreds of men in their marriages.
Allow me the chance to help you, using my personal and gained experience.
VisitSaveMyCatholicMarriage.com...For superior coaching for your marriage.
Again...SaveMyCatholicMarraige.com
That’s...SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com to become the man God created you to be and the husband your wife needs!
Lastly,I always get the question... why don’t you help women. And I always answer them...I do!
So, for all of you Beloved wives out there that want to reignite that feeling of emotional closeness and complete love from your hubby
Consider Marriage Coaching and visit
SaveMyCatholicMarriage.com for an improved marriage within 30 days!TRANSITION MUSIC!

Conclusion

Remember I’m here each and every Tuesday thru Thursday at 10am eastern to answer your marriage in crisis questions!

In conclusion, as we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort... But you weren’t made for comfort...

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier...

The Spiritual fight is upon you...

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Conclusion

As we always do, we end with a quote from Pope Benedict XVI

Quote “Society offers you comfort…

But you weren’t made for comfort…

You were made for greatness!

So go forth Christian Soldier…

The Spiritual fight is upon you…

Fast-Pray-And Prepare For Battle!

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

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Prayer Warfare - physical protection of your wife and family is important, but what about when you aren't around. Who protects them at school, at work? For this reason spiritual protection by you is extremely vital. And you can't protect them from the Evil One without prayer and sacrifice. Understand this is a battle. And you must get in it!
The Art Of Manliness - You can't have the fortitude, perseverance, and patience, you need to survive without understanding your mission and purpose as a man...NUFF SAID!
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My Wife Wants Me To Move Out

What Should I Do? Part 1

My Wife Wants A Divorce

What Should I Do? Part 1

Has She Pulled Away… Talked Divorce… or Left the Home?

Not Sure What To Do Next? Start Here.

Has Your Marriage Gone Cold… The Passion, The Connection, The Desire?

Lost Her Respect… And Nothing You Do Seems To Fix It?

Just How Serious Is Your Situation?

Catholic Alpha's Radical Rant Of The Day...

This Episodes Show Script

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Conclusion

Catholic Marriage Crisis Tips For Men!

More About Catholic Alpha Radical!

The Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Catholic Alpha Radical Podcast

Get Hooked! Listen To Our First 4 Radical Episodes

About Jerry Jacobs Jr.

Has She Asked For A Divorce?…Left The Home?

Has She Pulled Away… Talked Divorce…
or Left the Home?

Has Your Marriage Gone Cold… The Passion,
The Connection, The Desire?

Lost Her Respect… And Nothing You Do
Seems To Fix It?